Woman Haters

Another Rant By: BettyJean Kling

Last Dec. 19, 2008, I started to follow a story about then State Senator elect Hiram Monserrate.

On January 8, 2009, I posted the following piece Oops- I accidentally smashed the glass then slashed her face and dragged her down a hall screaming!

On Feb. 2, 2009 NOW calls for removal of Sen. Monserrate ,

On March 27, 2009 Yet another lie sealed with a kiss ,

On March 29, 2009 Why do the women return? I suggest you read these for a firm understanding of this case.

monserrate_190On September 15, 2009, Marcia Pappas, a dear friend, President of NOW-NYS alerted me to an update and a campaign to which I immediately responded with a newsletter, HELP send MonsterRat to Jail. I urge you to please – if you haven’t already — join us in this effort. Apparently the combined has already drawn the attention of women haters everywhere and we made The New York Times!

Women’s Group Presses Judge in Monserrate Trial

In accepting Mr. Monserrate’s application last Monday for a nonjury trial, Justice Erlbaum warned the senator that “in a bench trial, I wear two hats: I get to see all the evidence, even impermissible evidence.” He said he would seek to separate his legal responsibilities as judge and jury, “but the same corporeal human being has seen and heard all the evidence.”

The comments section is telling. Please go to the paper and add to the comments ASAP. You will find the women haters were right there and not enough of us to show them for what they are. Please help ASAP.

Example of Comments:

1-We need strict anti-violence against women because nowadays their sense of entitlement extends to saying and doing whatever they please. Men need to be saints to put up with them.

2-They are asking the Judge to give him the maximum sentence BEFORE he has been found guilty. As they put it in the Old West: hang him first, and then have the trial. This may not violate any law or ethical rule, but it is revolting. Their defense is simply our ends justify our much less to show what an appropriate sentence is. …
— rick

3-About 10 years ago during my divorce I was falsely accused of domestic violence by my ex-wife as a tactic to help her get sole custody of our child. My ex-wife tried the same thing again twice since then. All three times she was caught. The only thing that happened was that I never lost custody.  I hate to tell Marcia Pappas this, but some women do lie about these things. A lot will depend on the cross examination. If it comes out in the trial that Monserrat’s companion perjures herself, I will be interested to know what Pappas feels her punnishment should be.
— john

I left my comment which perhaps was too strong? It has not yet shown up but here it is:

Rick – I nearly fell over when your wrote the following about NOW’s campaign. “This may not violate any law or ethical rule, but it is revolting.” I wonder if you read the entire article and are aware of the revolting facts in the case.

He may have accidentally tripped while bringing her a glass of water and I suppose you could believe the glass broke on her eye. But can you then explain; how she got from that accident out of his loving and caring comforting helping arms into the hallways? The same hallways where the security cameras have recorded her running bleeding from door to door screaming for help? And where it is also recorded that he is seen removing her purse from her and depositing it down the garbage shute? And where it is also recorded he is seen dragging her kicking and screaming and might I add attempting not to be taken back into his apartment?

Are you also aware there is additional video of them leaving the building some time later with her head in a bloody towel- apparently this was not going to stop without stitches.

In addition- MonsterRat drove past several hospitals on his way out of his county to take her to another county hospital where she gave the hospital staff and dr.’s and police a domestic violence story which bears up what the video evidence shows.

Finally, he was arrested – she was admitted and miraculously – his family and his bodyguards never left her side from that moment on until she recanted her story.


One more thing, my daughter Louisa 41 lays motionless in a nursing home with half her head– having had her brains blown out on Dec. 15, 2008  because a judge was too lenient on my son-in-law. George was not her husband – George is my other daughter’s husband, who at 250 lbs. decided to bash Denise’s  80 lb. Cancer ridden bald head in with a claw hammer to get her pain meds.

They let him out in 3 months and while her sister Louisa was caring for Denise  ‘THE SAINT’ came back and did Louisa in and would have killed anyone else who would have got in his way.

Sure every once in a while a women makes a false claim against a man – not nearly as many times as one man makes a false claim against another man for any number of things so don’t piss on my leg and tell me it’s raining. For every false claim there are thousands of unreported, under reported or recanted out of fear claims of abuse against women and girls.

Every time one of you punks, Dr. Klien or whatever her/his name and the rest of you starts this belly aching I want to laugh in your face because it is YOU and others like YOU that are the problem. And every time you rear YOUR ugly heads YOU make it clear — YOU are animals who think you are greater but who really fear women and hate them.

You are the reason – violence against women needs to be adjudicated as a hate crime- herein these comments lies the proof.

You better believe we are on a writing campaign. If they let my drug addicted son-in-law out after what he did to my 80 Lb. dying daughter so he could be free to murder the other,  how much sooner will they let this guy out — the  supposed upstanding servant of the state?

a) former Marine
b) former cop
c) former Queens NYC Councilman
d) Now NY State Senator

But wait there is more! I am not done yet folks:

Queens City Councilman Hiram Monserrate has self-professed history of mental problems

Troubled police officer Hiram Monserrate has a history of mental problems – he said so himself.

“I suffer with adjustment disorder with mixed anxiety and depression, and posttraumatic stress disorder,” Monserrate wrote in 1999.

Monserrate – who just racked up his second arrest after an alleged violent outburst – claimed to be struggling with psychological issues when he quit the NYPD after 11 years.

His May 19, 1999, application for a disability pension was troubling enough that cops immediately seized his guns, public court filings show.

He cited reports from a psychiatrist and a psychologist to back up his claim of a mental condition. Court documents do not detail the condition or the cause.

The next day, the NYPD’s psychological services unit took Monserrate’s guns from him “based on their evaluation,” according to a lawsuit Monserrate filed against the NYPD to force a decision on his application.

He withdrew the case later in 1999. It could not be determined whether Monserrate obtained the disability pension.

A Marine-turned-cop, Monserrate had a rocky career with the NYPD.

He was a founding member of the Latino Officers Association, complaining of brutality and discrimination in the department, and said he was harassed and intimidated by white supervisors as a result.

He retired in 2000 with a $108,000 settlement from a suit against the department, and he ran for City Council the next year.

Yesterday’s bust on charges that he slashed his girlfriend was the second time Monserrate faced a judge after a nasty confrontation.

He was arrested in the early-morning hours of Sept. 11, 2001, on charges of trying to run over a tow truck operator attempting to repossess his car. The outcome of that case could not immediately be determined.

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2008/12/20/2008-12-20_queens_city_councilman_hiram_monserrate_-1.html#ixzz0RZTgMZMw

Remember – They let him be a Councilman the elected him then swore him in as State Senator and put him in as chair on committees even with all this hanging over his head and a record of mental illness and violence!


If this guy walks- there will be hell to pay — damned it –hell to pay! 

Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman, Jihadic Style. President Obama, Please Read This

From Chesler Chronicles April 30th, 2009 1:22 pm

While I was enjoying some sunshine in Savannah, (more to come about that), World War Four continued to rage blithely on.

Al-Qaeda in Uzbekistan, Pakistan, and North Africa, threatened terrorist attacks against Germany and Holland and threatened to kill a British hostage (captured on the border between Niger and Mali), if Britain does not release a radical Muslim preacher.

The Pakistani Taliban shot a couple dead for alleged adultery and their execution in Islamabad was captured on a cellphone; Egyptian police arrested a Muslim woman for having married a Coptic Christian; in Lahore, a Muslim husband killed his wife for failing to bear a son; in the Punjab, a Sikh physician-husband amputated his wife’s hand and that of her cousin with whom he suspected she was having an affair.

So much for male terrorists in foreign lands.

Last week, as I carefully smelled the roses in Georgia, there were three carefully organized explosions on one day in Iraq, which killed a total of 80 civilians. One explosion was carried out by a woman in a black abaya, holding a 5 year-old child’s hand, (probably not her own). She killed herself and 28 other Muslims in a crowded market in a Baghdad slum. The civilians, many of whom were other women, were waiting on line for free flour, cooking oil, tea, macaroni, and other staples that the police were handing out. Of course, police officers died as well.

Many people have written to me, surprised, outraged, perhaps demoralized by the fact that this latest Muslim-on-Muslim atrocity was committed by a woman and mainly against other women.

As the author of Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman, which is just now being released in a new edition with a new Introduction, I am, unfortunately, not surprised. Please recall how quickly the mainstream media covered the “sensational” use of rape by the male members of Al-Qaeda as a way to recruit female human bombs. At the time, people seemed surprised by the fact that Samira Jassim, an Iraqi woman, played an essential role in the further exploitation of these rape victims.

Although women depend upon each other for emotional intimacy and social stability, they are also highly competitive with, mistrustful of, or hostile towards other women. Like men, women have also internalized sexist beliefs. Are women really sexists? Of course they are. A study of 15,000 people in nineteen countries on five continents found that women hold sexist views just as men do. However, some studies suggest that women with low self-esteem are more likely to internalize negative views of women which may account for how such women treat other women: With cruelty rather than kindness.

In addition, women are expected to compete mainly against other women, not against men, and they do so both directly and indirectly (through slander, shunning, and “backstabbing.”) In the Third World, especially in war zones, the female-female aggression is far more direct, often fatally so.

I have written a number of articles about Muslim mothers who have participated, both directly and indirectly, in the honor killing of their daughters; and about female Muslim suicide-homicide bombers who have specifically targeted other women and children.

For example, in 2008, in Iraq, one of four female homicide bombers entered a tent that provided shelter to weary female religious pilgrims. She sat down, read the Koran with them, and left a bag behind that, moments later, blew them all up. Please note that she targeted weary, religious Muslim women.

Thus, I was dismayed but not surprised when a Sunni, Al-Qaeda plot emerged, one in which male terrorists raped eighty Muslim girls and women, then turned them over to Samira Jassim who patiently, persistently, “maternally,” persuaded the rape victims, (many of whom had been targeted because they were depressed or mentally ill), to “cleanse” their shame by blowing themselves and other Muslims up. Twenty eight women did so.

In an interview with Dr. Anat Berko, the author of The Path to Paradise. The Inner World of Suicide Bombers and Their Dispatchers, she pointed out that there is “always a woman” behind the female suicide bomber, who functions like a “pimp or a Madam in a brothel.” Potential women suicide bombers are never alone again, they are always accompanied by at least one, usually older woman, who encourages, manipulates, guards, and supports the potential shaheeda–just like a mother might do.

In a culture in which girls are raised by women whose own mothers did not value them as they did boys, women may hunger for attention from an older woman–even one whose sole purpose is to ensure their jihadic death. In Dr. Berko’s book, there is a frightening example of how all the jailed, intercepted Palestinian female suicide bombers obeyed and respected one of their own: a woman who was the harshest, angriest, most mentally ill amongst them. Sadly, perhaps this most reminded them of their own mothers.

In a terrible sense, “Madam” Jassim, only exaggerated, by a bit, what is routinely and normatively done to many girls and women today in Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan, Somalia, Sudan, and increasingly in countries such as Egypt, Iraq, Algeria, etc. After all, Jassim played the Evil Stepmother in a culture which fears, despises, shrouds, genitally mutilates, force-marries girls to their first cousins, and perpetrates honor killings. How different is collaborating in their rape and helping them find glory through jihad? In a sense, some may actually view this as a quantum career leap for women.

Like Madam Jassim, when women are trapped in highly patriarchal cultures, they may gain the only approval and power possible for a woman by vigilantly policing themselves and other women to extol and support the patriarchal status quo. This is true in terms of issues such as veiling which, for women, is the visual shorthand for “jihad” and extreme religiosity. I fear that we will see many more Evil Stepmother/mothers like Samira Jassim and many more raped, traumatized, exploited, ideologically empowered, and ultimately suicidal-homicidal daughters.

Attention President Obama and Secretary of State Clinton: Supporting the pro-democracy and pro-woman’s rights forces within Afghanistan, Iraq, Pakistan, Iran, and on the West Bank and in Gaza, might go a long way to reversing such ongoing tragedies. If America genuinely believes that women are human beings entitled to certain, God-given and “inalienable rights,” now is the time to share that view with the leaders of these countries.