Sexualizing America 1 of 12

Another Set of Rants By BettyJean Kling


Seems to me most of the sex selling is selling women and girls short. If it is true that women do most of the buying- please explain to me how sex selling women and girls as objects to be used and abused and men as the users and abusers sells to the abused? Think I am exagerating- give it time my friends, I am going to bring you the proof! For two years I have harped now I am going to bring you the actual physical proof! seeing is believing! This is what we are force feeding our kids!

Stay tuned for all 12 parts of this photo essay. Add to these images TV programming and today’s music lyrics, peer pressure and a variety of other input that children are bombarded with from birth.

No matter what category you fall in: Left or Right; Conservative or Democrat; Liberal or Conservative; Mother or Father; Male or Female. I want you to think hard about what your children are going to glean from these images and soundtracks etc.

This has been foisted on us slowly each year getting worse and worse – and auspices of free speech we have now come to this. Just as the women under Shar’ia law accept their fate to be lower than dogs and their men believe they are the slave masters without question- we in America are conditioning our children. Females as sexual objects and prey, rather than equals and males as sexual predators/dominators rather than equals.

Over the course of the rest of this year I will present you with over 200 of over 1000 ads I have collected. Each picture is worth 1000 words. Picture each word for yourself. Are we going to allow these already opulently rich manufacturers to continue to make an obscene amount of money on the backs of our children? Our kids are begging us for these products and we must be buying them – these ads cost a fortune to run.

So sex sells- somebody is buying it folks and it is up to us to put them out of the business of selling these ideas to our baby girls and boys!

By the way today I say the latest gifts for kids: Tattoos for baby boys and Baby Stiletto’s for baby girls! Had enough yet?

Although many think that the shoes are just too cute, others believe they are hideous. Some people believe that putting high heels on a baby is perverted and will rob them of their innocence. Hayden Porter responded with,” A 3-month old baby has no idea she’s wearing high heels.”

To which I respond- every pedophile in town will enjoy the baby in stilettos! Let’s just put them on at birth and let’s make G-String diapers while we are at it – maybe tampon diapers too? Damned idiots!

Dereon Girls Ad Too Adult

Beyonce has gone too far- is she and her adult girl want to look like hookers – well that is one thing but dressing this little girls like this – it’s over the top!

All they are missing is a POLE because they are truly strippers in the making- where are their mothers? The same place most of our mothers are- with their heads in the sand while all this has been happening right under our noses. Check the clothes on your daughters and their friends – do it now!


And now for the photo essay:

These first 7 photos represent 3 from Abercrombie and Fitch using models that appear to be under aged followed by  4 on ageism which shows a contrast between the supposed sexiness of the very very young and supposed used up- over the hill unattractiveness of older women. In my opinion this not only pushes sex while you are very young, it also leads to eating disorders, depression and poor self esteem and self image. It is disparaging and insulting to older woman not to mention disrespectful.

She- prey/submissivly abused/sexy. They- strong/predators/sexualizing/abusing

She- prey/submissivly abused/sexualized ganged on by 3 guys. They- strong/predators/sexualizing/ganging on

Every boys dream ( he looks 14), a blond and a brunette - one on each arm to meet his every need. Afterall what else are they for? So tell me what item of clothing are they selling here anyway?

Now that we’ve learned what young girls are for let’s see what happens when they age?

You do not want to look like- or act like or listen to a MOTHER do you?

What would you rather look like - a lil old lady or a sex kitten? You only have two choices !!!

Either a young sex kitten or an old bag- one or the other - only two choices for women!

Young ansd sexy or a disrespected ugly old bag

Is it any wonder women feel depressed when they are marketed to and purchase from manufacturers who insult them? AND the damned fools keep buying from them! Why? An old bag you can actually love? What a damned insult! Keisel should be drummed out of business tomorrow!

13 Responses

  1. Your article is brilliant; I’ve noticed this for years;
    There’s always an extreme version on how women should behave and look , I’ve noticed. It’s either so closet style like Sharia law wants or out there buck naked. Just look at our movie theaters. I remember asking my mother over and over again, why there’s a naked woman on the screen but the man is ALWAYS hidden.. I thought it took 2 to tango… If both sexes are nude, although not for kids, it can also turn to art (in my opinion). If only women are constantly naked naked naked on the screen and not the men, (not to mention beaten or bloodied in showers) what message does that send to everyone? That women are the sexual toy; the hobby, the game… as the saying goes… gambling, wine or women. I believe this can only be addressed if women had groups ready willing and able to fight the wrongs… and not just left circles. That won’t work because they don’t help the women of the right. We need a group that would encompass every side. I really loved your article; keep up the good work.

  2. Just listened to tonight’s FreeUsNow BlogTalk Radio show with – Ben Atherton-Zeman, founder of: “Voices of Men”


    Ben is a spokesperson for the National Organization for Men Against Sexism ( and is a public speaker on issues of violence prevention.

    This, BJ, was one of the most surprising moments in the battle for Women’s Equality that has been brought to our attention!

    This is what a real male feminist sounds like! Informed, compassionate, honest, and forthright about the responsibility of men to be at the forefront to STOP THE VIOLENCE, SEXISM AND OPPRESSIONS BEING COMMITTED AGAINST WOMEN!

    He fully understands the pitfalls, denials and gender/cultural excuses being played out at the expense of women and girls.

    More importantly, Ben is leading the way for men to become aware and for women to be championed by men who will risk everything to assist women in their fight against ABUSES – in any form!

    Thank you Ben Atherton-Zeman and those who have joined you!

    Bravo Ben! Thank You!

    • I was honored to have this man on as my guest and to have Barry Goldstein call in.
      His books on the subject are outstanding- these men are fantastic and renew our ability to have faith that all men are not animals.
      there are so many wonderful men in this world that is why it is important for us to stop the ads before our little boys are raised to dishonor womean through default!

  3. So glad to see that men are realizing that they are contributing to violence against women by their silence. Here is another organization that works to get men involved and educated:

  4. Thank you so much for posting this series. It is an excellent and informative read. If we as women want to stop sexism, misogyny, and DV, then we need to stop another generation from being brought up in this type of culture!

    • Absolutely, Our children – both girls and boys are brainwashed to see Females as objects and when we get beat up – no one cares – not the cops – not the lawyers – not the prosecutors and not the judges. What they hell – they must like it is what they think after all everything boys and men see from birth to death for the last 30 years suggests we like being treated like this . and the message to females… you guessed it – this must be how we are supposed to act and we must like it – look we are always smiling about it all.

      BettyJean Kling M.S, M. Ed Founder: The Majority United Sign up for our Email Newsletter http://www.FreeMeNow.wordpress BTR. The Majority United Radio Mon 10 pm & Wed 9:30 pm Eastern Call-in Number: ( 347 ) 838-8011!/group.php?gid=112870418738402 Free US Now- “A victim’s first scream is for help; a victim’s second scream is for justice.” – Coral Anika Theill TMU IMAGINE Empowering Women To Unite & Mobilize ! Sign up for our Email Newsletter

  5. It is horrifying how insiduosly this image of women and girls has been creeping into the consciousness of all.

    They (MSM, Ad Men and Companies) have been getting away with it because we weren’t aware of it. It has gone on far to long already and we have lost generations to this slime.

    Fighting it won’t be easy, we will be called “prudes” etc., but it really doesn’t have anything to do with sensibilities. It has everything to do with the end result. Marginalizing women, making abuse okay, DV a lesser crime than stranger assault etc.

    I wonder what Alice Paul et al, would have to say to us for letting this get so far out of hand.

    • Liz I – this is the third time I am running this series- look at the dates of the comments – I decided not to post this as new this time but to just refresh to show that no one seems to give a damned. We got 8 lousy comments last time — 8! And besides for you and I we are not doing much better this time! WHY?

      And then we wonder why we are treated like dirt? Could it be because we don’t stand up for ourselves or our children until it is too damned late? Please do what you can to drag women here and force them to look at this!

      BettyJean Kling M.S, M. Ed Founder: The Majority United Sign up for our Email Newsletter http://www.FreeMeNow.wordpress BTR. The Majority United Radio Mon 10 pm & Wed 9:30 pm Eastern Call-in Number: ( 347 ) 838-8011!/group.php?gid=112870418738402 Free US Now- “A victim’s first scream is for help; a victim’s second scream is for justice.” – Coral Anika Theill TMU IMAGINE Empowering Women To Unite & Mobilize ! Sign up for our Email Newsletter

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