Truth Is Uncomfortable

Another Rant by: BettyJean Kling

Denise Richardson Abused by George now Emotionally abused and Abandoned by Tommy

Ok- here’s the deal – Some of my closest friends are worried because I finally came out and told the truth about what I am going through with these two guys in my family. My friends think this is going to reflect poorly on me. Well that is exactly what these two clowns want! And if it reflects poorly on me it’s because the truth can make people feel very uncomfortable – imagine what it feels like to have a dead son, and a dying daughter  and another daughter in Louisa’s condition being brainwashed by a son who is under the influence and hateful?

I… well out of all the responses I received I want you to know none were negative – absolutely none- no one unsubscribed, many sent hugs and kisses and only two friends worried for me. It was that worry that got me thinking why women stay- and why women wind up hurt! I had to speak up – this was and is a teachable moment.

 

Michael Guy Richardson- Mikie died of Cancer at age 34 in Jan. 2000

This is exactly why we women always wind up shutting up- we are always afraid to speak out because we will be blamed somehow – it is always our own damned fault. We touched on this a bit on the radio show the last two nights and I am sure we will touch on it again soon. Our callers often talk about how the father of their children verbally abuses them and runs them down in the courts and specifically to their children. This is what my son’s father did to him – he brainwashed him and you are seeing the result of the hit job I am about to endure. Beware here it comes- sex, lies but no video tapes!

My story is not different from other divorced mothers – there are millions of us that have been degraded by the fathers – so they could cover their own dereliction of duty and why they abandoned their children. Blame it on Mom- guess that’s my fault too huh?

 

 

 

Tommy Richardson And George Hartwig- Birds of a feather - George is a large physical abuser Tommy is a verbal and emotional abuser, a a little guy who hides behind women. Both brute punks.

Another Dreams of my Father story here – Tommy was abandoned at birth his father who was dead at 44 – overdosed on heroine- but not before he filled his son’s head with unimaginable stories that Tommy should have never believed as he lived with me and knew he never saw such things – nor did he siblings see them but he chose to internalize them – poor soul- I give up trying to repair or understand it now.

Men label women with the most disgusting terms for reasons beyond comprehension just because they are mean spirited and yet we still ask women not to talk about it lest it reflect poorly on them? Why? Is that going to stop it? Is hiding it going to help? What has hiding it every done but facilitated its continuation?

Shall I sit by quietly and let Tommy tell his sister lies and brainwash her when she is

Louisa Richardson, George shot her in the head, Tommy is now using her to emotionaly batter their mother to avenge his abusive dead father.

helpless? Am I not a mother bear – have I not right to try to protect my helpless daughter even if it does reflect poorly on me? Go ahead and blame it on me if you must – but I am looking for that one somebody out there that someone who will see through it all and possibly know someone who can help Louisa.  I WILL GLADLY GIVE UP MY GOOD NAME FOR MY CHILD!

For those who would ask -what is wrong with this family anyway – it must be her fault. What kind of family is this – what kind of mother is she anyway? I ask them -are we ever going to stop blaming women for what men do? Hasn’t every male abuser come out of a woman’s womb?

 

 

 

Tommy is my son if you want to blame me for his behavior- knock yourself out – I am ashamed of him myself but I certainly did not bear George or Frank or any other of the scum bums that are going around abusing, bullying, terrorizing and/or slaughtering the millions of woman who are being mistreated and murdered all over the world. So please – I am only responsible for bringing one disrespectful abusive son into this world and I am extremely sorry for the way he turned out! 

 

Me - Helping Hillary so women might might get their ERA and all Americans could have Health Care

For those women out there who keep your mouths shut lest you look bad- scream- baby scream! Better you look bad to the small minds without hearts than you are slaughtered daily piece by piece and have no soul left when they are done eating away at all that you are. Fight – for you are a human being and have every right to fight back! Fight for your self respect and never let some bullying selfish worm try to take you down. They can only win if you do not fight them- fight them!

Yes – the truth is uncomfortable but so is the pain of abuse- and the dogs are barking loudly now- and we must keep going! 

Don’t feel sorry for me – I am a survivor- in case you have not noticed – I need nothing – please pray for my daughters! And should I die say she came – she fought and she damned well was here and was certainly not afraid to speak!

 

blaming the victim n.

From: A Dictionary of Psychology | Date: 2001 | Author: ANDREW M. COLMAN

 
A pervasive tendency to assume that a person who has suffered a misfortune must have done something wrong to deserve it. It is explained by the just world hypothesis.

 

just world hypothesis n.

From: A Dictionary of Psychology | Date: 2001 | Author: ANDREW M. COLMAN

 
The widespread but false belief that the world is essentially fair, so that the good are rewarded and the bad punished. One consequence of this belief is that people who suffer misfortunes are assumed to deserve their fates: a person involved in a traffic accident must have been driving carelessly, a victim of burglary could not have taken adequate precautions, a woman who was raped must have acted provocatively and led her attacker on, and so on, and even the victims often blame themselves. This phenomenon, which is usually interpreted as a consequence of the illusion of control, was first identified and named by the Canadian psychologist Melvin J. Lerner in an article in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in 1965. See also blaming the victim, Just World Scale.