What Does it Mean to “Split the Baby”?

Another Rant by: BettyJean Kling

Louisa Moved to Kessler

On Friday January 23, 2009 Louisa Richardson- Rodas was moved from Hackensack University Medical Center in Hackensack, NJ to Kessler Institute for Rehabilitation in West Orange, NJ.

 

As I stood there, I was informed by my son Tommy with the most vicious disgusting terms imaginable that this would be the last time I would see my daughter and he was backed up by her husband Frank. I was not going to repeat his words but I decided To do so . He said to Louisa,

 

” Don’t worry Lou Lou – we will get you out of here and away from this murdering, whore pig and you will be safe very very soon.”

 

Then he looked me straight in the eye and told me I would never see her again and that he would

GET ME.”

 

Yikes! One has to wonder what they are telling this poor baby when I am not there and just how dangerous this all is to her recovery! I am not concerned about what she will think of me- but what is this doing to her? And God help her – why doesn’t anyone care? Surely the rantings and ravings of these two should have raised some eyebrows with the hospital and they certainly should have conveyed this to Kessler.

 

 

I spoke to the Kessler Institute on Friday and they informed me that her husband Frank and brother Tommy had been there already and had been emphatic that they did not want me to visit my daughter. They also told me that they had reports from Hackensack University Medical Center that the two had attempted to ban me from that institution as well but that HUMC had determined that it was in the best interest of the patient to have her mother at her side and they overruled her husband. Kessler assured me if I waited until Monday and did not create any problems over the weekend they would probably follow the same visitation program. They already told the two guys that if there were any problems – Louisa would not be admitted or she would be released- seems they did not care- I did and stayed home and never blogged it- complained or called again till late Monday.

 

On Monday when I called for an update, I was told Kessler asked for a meeting about visitation and both men had created such a stir over the prospect that Kessler would also overrule them that they would  have Kessler turn her away rather than have me visit. Kessler assured me that if I pressed this issue – they will not keep her there. They actually warned me not to press them or Louisa would be released. I am withholding the woman’s name until I am assured the woman can not retaliate against Louisa. Again – Lou is my first consideration.

 

It took me several hours to contact my attorney and I instructed him that he was to inquire regarding both the legality of preventing my visitation and the legality of removing her should I request visitation. I guess the threat is to be considered as well but it is secondary and personal so no matter to Louisa’s best interests at this time.

 

At first – I was simply going to just step back as did the mother in the Bible and refuse to “Split the Baby” then I decided – not to allow anyone to use Louisa against her will nor was I going to be blackmailed by these two heartless fools who claim to love Louisa but who would risk her care for spite, or an Institute who would prevent a mother visitation without first checking the legality of doing so and by threatening to withhold care in retaliation for my seeking legal council on the matter. Finally, I am very concerned with the brainwashing of my helpless daughter – surely someone should be concerned about that?

 

Tommy and Frank should be ashamed of themselves for behaving on behalf of Louisa in such a way as to humiliate and degrade her dignity.

 

In the meanwhile, I intend to continue to try to work this out legally, without jeopardizing Louisa’s care and without loosing touch with my daughter who means the world to me and who I have been financially supporting for the last 5+ years since her husband could not afford to.

 

So what does it mean to “split the baby”?

 

It means that a Mother’s Love will allow me to step back and do the right thing while selfishness will allow others to use a totally helpless Louisa in this unscrupulous disgusting manner may they rot in HELL for:

 

” Using her without her permission as a tool of hate and spite

” Doing things without knowledge if what you are doing is hurting her

” Whispering in her ears not knowing how detrimental it is to her

 

Louisa is in danger because these two fools are messing with the memories and thoughts of a helpless seriously brain injured woman and they appear to have Carte Blanc to continue. Remember – Louisa has lost most of her right brain tissue. And we do not know what all this is doing to her. They are playing with fire and they do not care. I care – Pray God Kessler investigates before it is too late for my helpless daughter who is being victimized yet again! God help Louisa.

 

 Tommy and Frank you are both abusers just like George.  He got one side and now you are damaging the other . Shame on you both!!

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10 Responses

  1. BJ, I’m just crushed with sadness. I continue to hope and pray that Louisa will be well and that you will be able to see her.

  2. BJ, I don’t know what to say except that I will continue to pray for your girls and you. I have been talking to others about this abuse issue and I can’t believe how much abuse is out there!

    Please keep faith.

  3. What is that they are whispering to her?

    What is it they are afraid of?

    I don’t know if this matters any but on Fabulously 40 somebody named “loveLouisa” was accidently deleted. If that was Frank or somebody close to the family, it was done by accident.

    Once again, what are these two “men” afraid of?

  4. Tommy is a very sick boy- he was supposed to be there that night – he never showed up- i guess he is transferring his self imposed guilt to me. Had he been there – george may not have gone in the house with all thoise cars there or knowing there were men in the house etc etc. Or if he went in he might have been stopped – Denise was sleeping and Louisa is deaf – so Tommy would have heard him come in and been able to possible stop him.
    I do not know – all i know is Tommy and i have not gotten along for years and he and Frank are drinkers – heavy drinkers – they are so drunk all the time they are probably delirious.

  5. My son is an abuser and has drinking problems his wife abuses drugs. I do not get along with my son and because he of his behavior and his actions. We have been estranged for years. Frank my son-in-law is an alcoholic and he is drowning his troubles with Tommy. Neither has any regard for women as is evidenced by the way they are treating Denise, my mother, me or Louisa.

    Together – they are devising ways to vent their frustrations and find someone to blame and someone to sue. Neither is working and both are in danger of loosing their homes- I look like an easy target to hit up for money and they think they can use Louisa to do that!

    They are wrong!

  6. I didn’t know Louisa was deaf.

    George Hartwig shot a deaf woman, who he knew was deaf?

    My god. He knew she was deaf and wouldn’t know it was him at the door and he shot her anyways? What a monster.

  7. I just don’t understand why you are being stopped from seeing your own doctor.

    Is this going to stand? Or is it just temporary?

    Seriously guys, email me at contact@dailypuma.com and explain your side.

    Right now, if I lived nearby, I would personally escort BettyJean to see her daughter and would not be intimidated if either of you were in the way, I would not be intimidated if either of you were blocking the way.

    I speak as someone who has been at both of my parents hospital bedside in the past year, and if I had not been there to watch over them, one of them probably would not have survived.

    http://www.DailyPUMA.com

    I’m easy to write to, please explain your side. contact@dailypuma.com

  8. I apologize, I meant to say daughter.

    I just don’t understand why you are being stopped from seeing your own daughter.

    Is this going to stand? Or is it just temporary?

    Seriously guys, email me at contact@dailypuma.com and explain your side.
    Right now, if I lived nearby, I would personally escort BettyJean to see her daughter and would not be intimidated if either of you were in the way, I would not be intimidated if either of you were blocking the way.

    I speak as someone who has been at both of my parents hospital bedside in the past year, and if I had not been there to watch over them, one of them probably would not have survived.

    http://www.DailyPUMA.com

    I’m easy to write and converse with, please explain your side.

    contact@dailypuma.com

  9. Betty Jean, I do not know you personally; I heard of you through the terrible tragedy you have experienced with your daughter, Louisa and through the posts you have written on FreeMeNow. Please believe me when I say I do not want to intrude into your personal life as I am a stranger to you and your daughters. Nevertheless I feel so compelled to tell you that my heart bleeds with sorrow for all the tragic circumstances within your family that has wrought such pain for you.
    I know of many people who have had to deal with grievous things in their lives, but I know of no one whom has been dealt such repeated heartbreaking blows as you in so short a time span.
    I have prayed for and lit candles for both Louisa and Denice, and for you as well, since I heard about Louisa and Denice. I wish I could do more.
    This situation compelled me to write a post at Hillary’sVillage.net around three weeks ago because I felt enraged at the neverending abuse hat abounds in this country. I stated that I’d do all I can to fight against this sort of thing . It has been ignored too long, and all women need to take a stand against any form of abuse from men. I’m writing letters to Congressmen now, boycotting all the news programs by not only not watching, but I’m also writing their sponsers and telling them that I will not buy their products until these stations stop using sexist and misogynistic tactics against women. I threaten to tell everyone I know as well as all my family to do the same. I don’t work fast but I’m persistent and methodical. I eventually get the job done. I won’t forget how important this is… not only to you, but to all of us women who have daughters, granddaughters, sisters, friends and other assorted women in our lives to whom we want to assure safety.
    Again, I’m so sorry for what you are going through and I will continue to pray for you and your family. I will light a candle to light the way for justice to be wrought upon all those who have hurt you and your daughters. God grant you peace and hope.

  10. FreeMeNow, why is my email listed in the Leave a Reply area? I gave it when I commented on one of BJ Kling’s posts only because it was required. Is it visable to everyone who comes to this site? If so, would you please remove it?
    I’m sorry, but I’m pretty dumb about how these blog sites work; it’s just that I prefer to keep my email private. I’m sorry if it actually is and I have misunderstood. I don’t mean to offend. Thanks for listening.
    Tryingtohelpourfuture

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